“伟大的思想讨论思想,普通的思想讨论事件,小思想讨论人。”

几年前,我读过罗斯福的这句话。从那时起,我迷上了它。当我在本文中讨论人员时,请不要将我标记为‘small mind’。这篇文章是写的in the general interest of your well-being.

解释期限‘Toxic People’

‘Declutter’是新的流行语。人们是 整理衣柜,厨房,生活方式, and what-not. However, you might not have yet decluttered your life of 有毒的 people. Chances are that you are not even aware of the phrase ‘toxic people’。有毒的人不是那些手袋中装有化学药品的人-不,一点也不。但是,他们的行为和举止使您感到自己生活中的存在感到负担。

为什么‘Toxic People’ are Harmful

反问题应该是‘toxic’ people beneficial in any way? The word 有毒的 is enough a suggestion that they are harmful to your life and lifestyle. Have you wondered you feel bogged down after talking to someone – they never have anything good to say – such people are 有毒的 and not good for your health! If you have a 有毒的 person in your office, chances are you will not be able to climb the ladder of professional success. If you have one in your family, you will not be able to form good relationships with other members, whereas if you encounter one in the apartment where you stay, it will become difficult for you to reside here after some time. This is because 有毒的 people carry venom in their hearts and even on their tongues. They are neither able to see you happy nor they let you be sad. 有毒 people are like barriers on a highway – they can become responsible for your accident.

  • 有毒的人可能对您的健康有害
  • 他们可以使您与他人的关系变糟
  • 这样的人可能成为您职业成功的障碍
  • 它们会在您周围和您的工作场所中引起负面的共鸣
  • 它们还会妨碍您的智力和思考能力

How to Handle 有毒 People

放聪明点

It is like handling hot coal straight out of fire or alternatively, an ice cube straight out of the refrigerator. To handle a 有毒的 person in your life, you need to be very smart. You need to end all relationships with the person, without making the person realize it. The process needs to be slow yet steady. Firstly, you need to set limits on such people. If you find that the person is constantly complaining and does not focus on the solution, then you need not discuss your problems with such people.

保持警惕

Learn to change the topic. The conversations with 有毒的 people often revolve around the problems they face or how bad other people are. If you do not want to participate in useless discussions, learn to change the conversation and direct it to something that benefits you. Whenever you face a 有毒的 person, be aware of all the happenings. Stay alert and aware of everything that is going on. Do not fall into their trap. The words you utter or things you do can be used against you. It is better to stay out of those conversations and things that will give such people a chance to begin all over again.

设定极限

Do not let such people participate in your life decisions. They overpower your life and try to make decisions for you, which is not required. This not only hampers your ability to think but can also harm you. Firstly, do not bring up topics that require advice. Even if they come up, do not take their advice. And lastly, even if these people give their advice, you use your own mind to make decisions. Stay out of the chaos that 有毒的 people bring in your life.

负端

有毒 means negative and so, 有毒的 person means the one who induces negativity in your life. Whenever you feel that something is not going right in your life, find our whether you have such people in your group or around you. Try to get out of their circle to end negativity and pessimism in your life.

保持快乐

有毒 people do not 有表扬的习惯 任何人。他们很少考虑每种情况。即使您攀登珠穆朗玛峰,他们也会以某种方式批评这种行为。不要因为幸福而依赖他人,他们的意见无关紧要。为自己的生活保持快乐。

如何不成为‘Toxic’ Yourself

It might happen that you become a 有毒的 person yourself in some way or the other. Here are some things that can help you stay away from being the negative one.

表达感激之情

每当你说‘thank you’ or 表达感激之情,您会吸引人和周围环境的积极性。一种‘thank you’意味着您注意到人们为您付出的努力,并且您欣赏他们的好意。

清晰地交谈

每个人都有自己的思考和表达情感的方式。不要指望别人立即理解你。需要进行清晰的对话。讲出您所说的每个单词并拥有整个对话的意义。不要说谎,而要向他人传达有效的信息。

表达你的感受

当您看到某人穿着漂亮的衣服,甚至是一个陌生人时,也不要回避夸奖。当您对某人说些好话时,此人对您以及周围的人都会感到良好和自信。世界不像以前那样美好。说出鼓舞人心的话语并与他人相辅相成是一种好行为。

减少混乱

Have you ever been in such a situation when you said something wrong about a person and the person was standing just behind your back? Take this as a cue by the universe to stop gossiping. Gossiping is quite 有毒的 and will stain positivity around you. When you talk behind someone’返回后,您向该人发送了错误的信号,如果这种情况持续下去,他可能会终止与您的关系。

执行任务

待处理的任务和响应 整理您的待办事项清单。随着清单的增加,您可能会忘记做一件事或另一件事。这可能会使您陷入麻烦。而是在任务出现时执行任务。这清除了您周围的气氛。

净化心灵

清洁心灵是一项伟大的活动。当您抱有对他人不好的东西时,您的全部精力都浪费在那个人对您所做的事情上。相反,想想别人为您做的好事情,您会感觉良好,头脑也会轻松。

好想

你需要想好 关于自己的积极事 还有关于别人的事情不要养成发现别人缺点的习惯’行为和行为。甚至不要继续寻找外观或感觉上的缺点。相反,应专注于寻找自己和他人的良好特征和习惯。但是,不要过度使用它。

结论

有毒ity is like a bad odor. It remains in the environment for a long time, making it difficult to breathe. It is your onus to end the 有毒的ity in your life and also that of others. Live and let others live to the fullest. Let us make this world a tad better, a bit happier, one act at a time.